Tuesday, June 18, 2013

Caste violence





The editorial, “Violence in disguise” (June 18) — on a young caste-Hindu woman from Dharmapuri deserting her Dalit husband under pressure from casteist forces — is a right step towards building public opinion against katta panchayats responsible for the ever-increasing violence against women and the socially marginalised Dalits. It is shocking that such panchayats exist in the Dravidian ideology-driven State of Tamil Nadu.


In recent years, katta panchayats have issued grotesque and disturbing diktats. Since the dominant community which controls land and muscle power and is highly patriarchal in its view hegemonises such panchayats, they are anti-woman and anti-weaker sections. No political party has shown the courage to challenge them. In fact, politicians see in katta panchayats a dependable vote bank.


T. Marx,


Puducherry


The violence that followed the marriage between the caste Hindu woman with the Dalit underscored that caste is strongly rooted in our society. It is obvious that the young woman opted to return to her mother due to the coercive persuasion of her community. The dominance of rural bodies like katta panchayats in Tamil Nadu and politicisation of caste are pathetic. The civil administration’s inability to rein them in accentuates the dismal scenario.


G. Anbarasi,


Chennai


Many social evils are closely associated with caste. Inter-caste couples face problems from the day they make known their intention to marry. The number of inter-caste marriages is negligible among men and women who live in the same village. Only those who settle down abroad have successful inter-caste marriages.


K. Ramesh Babu,


Warangal


A khap panchayat’s opinion that child marriages will reduce rape and other crimes against women, and katta panchayats’ ostracisation of families in which inter-caste marriages take place, are clear instances of disempowering women and fostering inequality. The government should make serious efforts to prevent them from causing further damage to society.


Kamaldeep Singh,


New Delhi


In the older days, marriages took place within the same community because there were few means of communication. So convenience dictated alliances. Today, it takes less than a second to communicate to any part of the world. With communication, the world has shrunk. It is human to fall in love and love is the basis of marriage. Community elders should not become destiny-deciders.


Sibani Saidarsini,


Bangalore


One is reminded of Shakespeare’s words “Love is not love. Which alters when alteration it finds ...” I also recall a popular Tamil poem by Mee. Raa (Mee. Rajendran), wherein he sarcastically speaks about love thus: “Oh my love! Both of us belong to the same caste, same community, same religion, same sect and same creed. That is why we have fallen in love at first sight.”


Meenakshi Pattabiraman,


Madurai



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Sex and marriage





The Madras High Court ruling that an unmarried couple of the right legal age indulging in “sexual gratification” could be termed husband and wife is shocking. Documentary evidence in the form of marriage registration may not be the only accepted proof of marriage. But to hold that pre-marital sex is enough proof of the same is unacceptable. Legal jurisprudence is a product of societal underpinnings. Traditional practices and customs have endured over thousands of years. Modern jurisprudence can supplant unwritten laws, not civilisational assets.


S. Vaidhyasubramaniam,


Thanjavur


The High Court ruling undermines the social aspect of marriage and makes it a matter between just two involved individuals. Marriage is not just a means of sexual gratification. What about the mutual respect, love, companionship and commitment a marriage entails?


Indian society, which frowns upon marriages not performed customarily, will surely find it difficult to digest the ruling. How is a person, particularly woman, to produce documentary proof of sexual relationship?


Deblina Dey,


New Delhi


The High Court has been fair to the woman who appealed to it against a lower court verdict. Her relationship with the man she lived with lasted long enough and they had two children. In similar cases, the judgment will definitely be of great help. But its logic cannot be stretched to cover two individuals making a choice of entering into a physical relationship without the intention of getting married.


B. Ramakrishna,


Hyderabad


The general ruling based on a specific instance goes against the established traditions and culture built with a view to establishing a society with ethics and moral values. The sanctity of marriage cannot be sacrificed for satiating a baser instinct.


Vathsala Jayaraman,


Chennai


The Madras High Court ruling on premarital sex is particularly important when viewed in the light of live-in relationships, which have been on the rise particularly in metros. The Delhi High Court ruled in Alok Kumar that live-in relationships are more like walk-in and walk-out relationships with no strings attached. The Madras High Court judgment puts a firm binding on premarital sex which is bound to raise eyebrows.


Preet Simar Sandhu,


Jalandhar


The judgment is significant as it gives an altogether new definition to the institution of marriage. A marriage will no longer be a ritual but an act of substance — a physical reality which binds the persons involved to inevitable legal consequences of a physical act. The judgment will come to the rescue of thousands of hapless women who are persuaded into sexual indulgence by some unscrupulous men under the false promise of marriage and then dumped. It will also make men accused of rape think twice before taking the defence of consensual sex. All said, I wonder whether the orthodoxy and religious fanatics will allow the historic judgment to stand.


S.P. Asokan,


Chennai



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Cabinet reshuffle






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politics





UPA II has completed its last reshuffle before the next election. The Congress hopes the latest changes will strengthen its prospects. Prime Minister Manmohan Singh has taken proper care to balance different States while satisfying a few aspirants for ministerial berths. He has categorically said he would be happy to see Rahul Gandhi as the next Prime Minister. This should bring cheer to young Congressmen. It is to be seen how the reshuffle and revamp are going to help the Congress come back to power for the third time, nullifying the anti-incumbency factor.


M.S.R. Seshasai,


Secunderabad


The Cabinet reshuffle is one last desperate effort by the Prime Minister to revive the sagging image of his government. A damp squib reflecting tokenism, it is a cosmetic exercise aimed at rewarding and placating regional satraps for their loyalty to the high command with an eye on the general election.


B. Suresh Kumar,


Coimbatore



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Iran, S. Korea qualify for World Cup






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sport


soccer





Iran won 1-0 at South Korea on Tuesday in a result that secured both teams a spot at next year’s World Cup, but the hosts only just scraped through and had to wait until after the final whistle to know their fate.


Iran finished top of Group A in the final stage of Asian qualifying, while South Korea finished second, level on points with Uzbekistan but holding second place by virtue of goal difference. Uzbekistan came from behind to win 5-1 at home against Qatar in a simultaneous game. The storming finish ultimately came up short, leaving the Uzbeks on a plus-five goal difference while South Korea was plus-six.


The winning goal came in the 60th minute. Kim Young-gwon failed to clear a speculative ball forward and Reza Ghoochannejad robbed him of possession, sprinted clear and sent a well-placed curling left-foot shot beyond goalkeeper Jung Sung-ryeong.


South Korea, not wanting to put its fate in the hands of the game in Uzbekistan, pressed forward strongly for the remainder of the game but could not equalize.


Kim almost made up for his mistake, but his close-range shot in the 86th minute produced a reflex save from keeper Rahman Ahmadi and Jang Hyun-soo’s follow-up was also blocked.


As Iran players, coach Carlos Queiroz and officials celebrated wildly on the pitch, the South Korean squad and fans were kept in suspense while the last couple of minutes of the Uzbekistan game were played out, before they knew they were also through to next year’s tournament in Brazil.


South Korea’s trip to Brazil will be its eighth-straight World Cup appearance including one as co—host in 2002 while Iran qualified for the World Cup for the fourth time, having missed out on South Africa 2010.



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18th June 2013



Dr.Suresh Rao (51) passed away suddenly on June 17 2013, Res.: 43, Bamaby Road, Chennai -10. Ph: 044 26433863


Sr.Esther Rani, FMM passed away on 17/06/2013. Funeral Services will be held at Child Jesus Convent, Trichy at 8.30 A.M. on 18/06/2013. FMM Sisters, St.Thomas Convent, Chennai -4.


Dr.Suresh Rao passed away on 17/06/2013.


Mourned by Madras Round Table-1.


Shri S. Manohar, Brownstone apartments,Chennai-34 died on 17.6.2013. Phone: 9500063060.


Mr. S.Sankaramurthy, IFS (Retd) passed away on 17/06/2013 at Chennai.Ph.: 044 23773128.


Mr. V.R.Krishnan (92) passed away at his residence on 17.06.2013. Ph: 98408 11300.


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Monday, June 17, 2013

Delhi - What’s On






Engineering for you


Learn how to work with tools and gadgets. Learn from reputed and experienced professionals about machines and how they work. This workshop promises to make engineering fun!


Venue: 37, Link road, Lajpat Nagar III,


Date: June 21- 23


Age group: 4 to 6 years


Contact: 01166579090


Sci-fun


Sci-Fun is a unique programme that discovers the world around us and its wonders through art. The projects cover wide areas of -General knowledge including Science, History, Sociology, Geography, Astronomy and more. The Interdisciplinary approach encourages original thinking, imagination and better ways of problem solving.


Venue: 1-A, Rajkunj Rajnagar Donald's Bakery Shop, Raj Nagar, Ghaziabad


Date: On till June 21


Age group: 7 to 14 years


Contact: 01130018018


Creativity unleased


Kreative Vistas announces a camp to give you an opportunity to enhance and enrich their creativity. Activities offered — cartoon character formation, character poses, object drawing, perspective drawing and landscape and live sketching.


Venue: HD-3 IIIrd Floor Hira Jewelers Building, Pitampura, Delhi


Date: On till June 30


Age group: 7 to 16 years


Contact: 01166579164


Dance away


Aarambh Dance Workshop — “EveryBody Can Dance!” It’s time to move your body to Bollywood style dance with Dance India Dance choreographers.


Venue: A 9, Green Park, New Delhi


Date: On till June 30


Age group: 3 years and upwards


Contact: 01130018123


Rhyme and Chime


You will learn and enjoy acting out to lively songs from different parts of the world, and get introduced to basic music concepts like Rhythm, Tempo, Pitch and so on with live guitar and fun props like bells, rainsticks, egg shakers, maracas, and other musical props .


Venue: Mozartsy, Safdarjung Enclave, New Delhi


Date: On till June 29


Age group: 1 to 5 years


Contact: 09560001000


Twice upon a time


Inspired by fairy tales, the only ingredient it needs is “Imagination”. Fairy tales — with a twist that will rekindle your interest in stories but will also encourage you to imagine. The play will be presented by The Unreal Academy, organised by Wizcraft International Entertainment Pvt Ltd at Kingdom Of Dreams.


Venue: Kingdom Of Dreams, Sector 29, Gurgaon


Date: August 10


Age group: 5 to 15 years


Contact: 09266802969


Get musical


Amrapaali Kala Peeth is a full-fledged music education provider that empowers students with creativity and knowledge and paves the way for their multi-dimensional growth across various segments of music industry.


Venue: Air Force Auditorium, Subroto Park, Dhaula Kuan Metro Pillar Number. 115, New Delhi


Date: August 11


Age group: 3 to 14 years


Contact: 01143851489


Grand event


Tansen Sangeet Mahavidyalaya is a music event for those who want to have a first contact with singing and instruments. You will experience the magical and unique feeling of great music.


Venue: Bhism Pitamah Marg, Pragati vihar Lodhi Road Near Sai Baba Mandir, New Delhi


Date: July 20


Age group: 3 to 14 years


Contact: 01166579131








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Kaleidoscope: Kerala





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